Sexy Mom Guide: How to Balance Motherhood with Style and Sex Appeal

Last updated on : October 03 2020

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Perhaps Leonardo DiCaprio echoed all our thoughts when he said, "My mother is a walking miracle." To describe mothers is a futile attempt, as they are nothing short of miracles. But more often than not, mothers are much less celebrated than they should be.

At The Kewl Shop, we believe every woman deserves to look and feel competent, sexy, and confident. Here are some tips on how you can balance the many duties of motherhood and yet amp up the sensual mom appeal to look ravishing. Yes, you too can be a hot mama. 

Style Tricks for Fashion Conscious Moms

Being a sexy mom, particularly with young kids, is no small feat. Chasing bundles of joy takes the agility and an active, healthy lifestyle. (Check out our article, The Power of Dumbbells for tips and insights into how to ensure your body can easily keep up with a regular weight lifting regime.)

Your constant activity does not mean that you need to look like you just walked in from a tornado. It is entirely understandable that you do not have a lot of spare time to put on a sexy bandage dress every day or wear elaborate makeup weekly. This article covers the various styles that are hot, mom-approved, and comfortable, and versatile to help keep up with the kiddos.

These fashion tips will help you balance practicality for motherhood duties without compromising your unique and sexy style. 

Develop A Feminine And Playful Look

Mothers often prefer sweatpants, T-shirts, and hoodies to ensure comfort and practicality, but there is no reason to lose touch with your feminine appeal. Many celebrity mothers have proved that you can pull off a lovely dress while carrying a child simultaneously with style. So bring out all the beautiful laces, ruffles, and flattering silhouettes relegated to the back of your closet. Better yet, invest in some new ones.

Playful jumpsuits and rompers with short sleeves, a lovely summer dress, or a well-fitting ruffled top with comfy pants give you the perfect mix of classy chic and the necessary comfort for a day with the little ones. Dressing to feel all graceful and pretty also gives you a boost of sexy women power that tired moms so often need (and deserve). 

Relook At Your Body Type

Many new moms give up experimenting with clothes simply because they miss their pre-baby body. First of all, stop doing that – you are a mother and a beautiful woman who needs not rue over a bit of weight gain. To ensure that you look stunning each time, pick outfits according to your body type. You will soon notice heads turning every time you step out, which is a genuinely empowering boost. There is no reason why mothers cannot look sexy and be confident in their new-found curves.

Wear The Correct Underwear

Sexiness is when your figure speaks out before your mouth does, and this applies to moms too. So, wearing undies that look right is a must. Your body has undoubtedly changed since the baby, so getting a perfect fit bra is indispensable because you can never stand out in the crowd without one. The correct bra will lift the chest beautifully, putting you front and foremost in admiring gazes. 

Consider a New Haircut

Every woman deserves to pampering, so leave your significant other in charge for an hour and go for a new haircut – an instant mood lift that most women swear by. Consult a professional and choose a style that highlights your facial features and is yet easy to manage and maintain.

Change Your Handbag

No, diaper bags are not the only handbags moms need to carry. Picking a new bag can instantly transform any outfit and make you more confident, no matter where you go. Move away from the neutrals and the tan, black, and gray shades.

Instead, pick a bright, springy one for a stylish and vibrant twist to your look without compromising on convenience or space. Another handy tip is to opt for a cross-body bag instead of a purse so that you look on-trend while also leaving your hands free for holding the baby. Today, many sexy moms choose to carry smaller purses inside baby bags for their essentials such as lipstick or lipgloss.

Opt For An Appealing Fragrance

When we inhale a good smell, it relaxes the mind. Doesn't it? Sexy looks can make you win the hearts, but the sexy scent you use holds power to divert someone's mind towards you. Hence, attractive appearance and alluring fragrance are everything you may need. For this, you can check these perfumes with the sexier scent.

Wear Coordinated Outfits

Mom and kid coordinated clothing

While this is not a new idea, one cannot deny mothers and their toddlers' extreme cuteness quotient in matching outfits. This way of dressing is perfect for special days like Mother's Day when you want to celebrate the beautiful bond. You can either go for completely identical clothes or go for similar-themed dresses with different footwear. Color coordinating your attire is another fun way to make a style statement.

Swap Jeans For Denim Dresses

So what if you cannot fit into your favorite pair of skinny jeans? Instead, celebrate your post-baby body by going for a cute denim dress for a carefree yet feminine effect. There are plenty of options for denim dresses out there, and you can pair it with stilettos, nude pumps, and even flats.

We recommend a nice pair of wedges and a fitted blazer with mixed bracelets for a fun-and-stylish sexy mom look. Carry a roomy tote bag for added chic that can also hold toys and snacks.

Shirt Dresses Are Easy On Your Figure 

When it comes to casual chic, no woman can go wrong with a lovely shirtdress. Choose one in a vibrant shade or colorful print, and wear it with a stylish pair of ballet flats to look effortlessly attractive from everything to a school event to an evening in the park.

Most shirt dresses are flattering to all body types, so you do not have to worry about a shirtdress not being the right attire for you. Add a belt for a nice touch and pick comfortable, machine washable materials like cotton for natural care.

Try LBDs

No woman's wardrobe can be complete without one of these, and the same goes for all the sexy moms out there. Pair your LBD with beautiful jewelry pieces for a classy look and wear a bright pair of shoes for a pop of color. A cropped jacket or a scarf are additional options for accessorizing the most flattering, classic dress style.

If you do not wish to wear one of your little black dresses, consider wearing something that gives you a bit more coverage like a long-sleeved number. Choose a bandage dress or similar stretchy fabric for a super-comfortable fit that is perfect for when you wish to attend dinner parties with the little ones and will require ease of movement. 

Choose Pants According To Shoe Height

Long pants can hide your feet' beauty, which can make you look unappealing to others. To not let this happen, choose pants or shoes accordingly. For example, if you're wearing an ankle-length jeans/pants, you must go with high heels. Likewise, opt for small heels with long pants.

Don't welcome very long pants in your wardrobe. First, they look saggy, and second they hide your lovely heels. 

Lastly - Grooming is Imperative

You might have noticed that people don't give a second look to a person who isn't well-groomed. Grooming includes skincare routine, fitness training, haircuts, and behavior. We know kids take a toll on your grooming but being a sexy mom means never forgetting how important grooming is.  

Tips to Dress for Different Venues

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If you thought that nobody cares about what mothers wear, you couldn't be more wrong. For starters, we care. We believe that every woman deserves to look and feel sexy, especially the mom on-the-go. To quote Paris Hilton, "The only rule is don't be boring and dress cute wherever you go. Life is too short to blend in."

As the leaders in women's bandage dresses and other trends, we recommend that you follow these dress and style tips as you spend the special day attending different events with your children and family.

Casual Outdoor Venues

Your loving family has planned an outing, especially for you, so the occasion demands that you dress the part. When you attend a picnic, barbecue, or other outdoor events, comfort is vital. But you can also bring in a touch of sex appeal with a stylish crop top paired with comfy wide-leg pants and ballerina flats.

Whether it is running about with the children, sitting for outdoor lunch, or simply relaxing at the beach, choose a dress that is versatile and perfect for every task the day may include. A lovely floral dress also works, and a chunky silver neckpiece brings in the right amount of edginess. Remember to carry a leather jacket for when the temperature dips.

Brunch

If you have a mom's brunch to attend with your girls, it is the perfect opportunity to go elegantly sexy and show off your curves. Consider a pair of well-fitting pants/dark jeans with a girly blouse with a small floral print. A strappy top in a solid color also works great. Add a well-tailored blazer or white jacket for layering the stylish way.

Wear classic heeled black or nude pumps with a lovely handbag, and you are all set to rock the day. This way of dressing is also practical enough to go for a children's play or other events later in the day.

Night out

For the sexy moms who love dancing or have a dinner planned at an upscale restaurant, clothes that look chic without being uncomfortable are what you need. Jumpsuits and bandage dresses are on-trend, figure-flattering, and extremely comfortable – so pick one in your favorite shade for a classy, stylish look.

Solid colors are an excellent way to show your refined taste without losing touch with your fun side. A delicate pair of stud earrings (or shiny danglers if you wish to go bolder), heeled footwear, and a nice leather jacket complete the look.

The second Sunday of every May is a day devoted to mothers, but this time, look beyond the cake and flowers and give yourself a sexy mom treat. And by that, we mean head to the spa, indulge in some new outfits, and dress up (provide a break to the old mom jeans and sweatshirt). Not only will you feel empowered and energetic from within, but your kids will also be super proud to show off their mom's style and appeal. 

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