How To Be Seductive - The Six Principles of Seduction And Sexiness
Last updated on : November 12 2017
Here are the six principles of seduction and sexiness.
- Principle 1. Showing Skin Does Not Mean Sexy
- Principle 2. Make Eye Contact
- Principle 3. Embrace Humor and Flirtation
- Principle 4. Use Your Mind
- Principle 5. Be Confident & Invest in Yourself
- Principle 6. Invest in Others
Principle 1. Showing Skin Does Not Mean Sexy
A barely-there piece of clothing is not the go-to rule. If you are uncomfortable with your clothes, you will be seen as awkward and not at ease. Instead of showing skin, stick to what suits you the most and use your personality to ooze sex appeal.
Here are 18 ways to be seductive in the clothes you wear. Each should leave you feeling comfortable, poised, and full of confidence - exactly where you want to be.
If you feel comfortable and confident, then you will turn heads in whatever you are wearing. The trick to amping your sex appeal is with the right attitude. Be yourself, and your sexy will show!
Principle 2. Make Eye Contact
Eye contact is a big thing. As soon as you make eye contact with somebody, they become valued and worthy.
Making eye contact with people you talk to is imperative. Making eye contact with the object of your interests and affections is non-negotiable.
When your eyes lock you communicate without ever having to speak a word of your interest and desires. Eye contact sets the mood - and it creates sensual tides when done right.
Principle 3. Embrace Humor and Flirtation
Magazine after magazine impresses the art of flirtation, time and again. Humor and flirtation is a prized trait that grabs attention and anchors conversation.
You don't need to put on a full-blown comedy routine. A warm smile and a quiet laugh takes away the edge and heightens the senses.
As you speak, smile and relax your body to avoid looking tense. Ask open-ended questions. Listen, and ensure you can ask a follow-up question to keep the conversation flowing.
Principle 4. Use Your Mind
Intelligent women ready for challenging conversations are sexy. Irrespective of looks and makeup.
A sharp, well-informed mind beats a skimpy outfit any day. Speak your mind and hold your ground, even when you are flirting!
Principle 5. Be Confident & Invest in Yourself
Being confident is one of the sexiest attributes a woman can have. Humor, spirit, and charm are more important than looking your best or wearing the right makeup.
We all suffer from self-doubt and shyness. Taking care of your body and your mind and heart are the best ways to look and feel confident. Treat yourself, get exercise and eat properly. Work on a style that makes you comfortable. Be confident in the way you carry yourself. Practice.
Here are some ways to develop confidence and investment in yourself.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." Those words, courtesy of the poet Ralph Waldo Emerson, ring more real than ever today.
The media saturates us with ideas about who and what we should be, what we should wear, how we should act, and what it means to be cool. When you strive for someone else's ideas though, you lose yourself. Here at The Kewl Shop, we're prominent advocates of blazing our path (our definition of kewl) to max out the flirty temptress in ourselves.
Principle 6. Invest in Others
Being seductive means focussing your attention on others, those you want to impress and seduce, and those that you treasure and value. It's not all about yourself, unselfishness and showing you care are amazingly sexy traits, and they work.
Making others the center of attention means taking the time out to invest in relationships and ridding yourself of unnecessary distractions.
If you don't invest in your relationship, the spark will die, or disappear altogether. But fret not, whatever you break you can fix with time and effort. Spice up your relationship and sex life with some of these insane ideas.
Additionally, countless studies support the impact and importance of touch. Physical touch protects our mental health and confirms that we are loved and desired. Knowing we are not alone in the world completes us, and allows us to carry on living. So find time to kiss and cuddle regularly.
The digital world and our reliance on social media, smartphones and the like are destroying face-to-face relationships. It's impossible to be seductive or sexy with a smartphone in your face, period!
We asked relationship experts how to have a healthy, balanced, and loving relationship in a digital world full of noise. They answered, and provided plenty of advice on how to focus on your precious one by turning off the digital world.
Seductive or Sexy. Is There a Difference?
We think "sexy" refers to the way you look. "Seductive" refers both to the way you look and to the way you behave. You're seductive when you look sexy and are gently manipulating or trying to get what you want.
Being sexy is much more than throwing on a short skirt or baring a lot of skin. It is about style, confidence, and a love for how you feel and who you are every single day. The first step to being sexy is feeling it from within, and there are some ways to get you there. The next step is to take that feeling and transform it into your outer look, by dressing sexy.
Being seductive and igniting someone’s passion for you is simple with a bit of planning and focus. There is no tried-and-tested formula, but there are things you can do to become a seductive version of yourself.
In essence, there isn't that much difference between the two behaviors, and the six principles work equally well for both.
In this guide, we covered the basic principles of seduction. From dressing the part to investing in yourself. These six laws are all you need for a more confident and seductive you.
We also looked at whether there is a difference between being seductive and being sexy, and although there is the two are so intertwined that for the most part they can be used interchangeably.
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